9 Mo Old Teething, Stopped Sleeping Well

Updated on July 11, 2011
S.L. asks from Hendersonville, NC
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I am a first time mom, so I'm new to all of this and need some advice! My baby girl is 9 mo old and from the time she was 4 wk -6months slept about 10-11 hours at night. At 6 months she started teething and all that stopped. She now wakes up 3-5 times at night and after about a month of only getting 3 or less hr of sleep at night, I started putting her in bed with me after about the 3rd time she would wake up. She had such AWESOME sleep habits before all this started, and I'm afraid I'm creating a really bad one for her.Some people have said to let her cry it out and I just cannot do that! I know she is teething and she just wants comfort...so am I doing the right thing? All my instincts tell me to hold and cuddle her right now!HELP!

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So I thought I would let you all know what I have discovered! I put a fan in my babies room last night for the noise and she only woke up once at 1:00. I got her back to sleep ( I had to rock her for a little while) put her back in her bed and she slept till' 7:15 this morning! I feel like a new person:-) Hopefully it was'nt a fluke and the fan noise does the trick!

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K.C.

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All I can say is I feel your pain!! I am a first time mom also and have a 9 month old baby boy who is teething. He was also a great sleeper until about 7 months and now he wakes up 2 to 3 times a night. I can't really give u that much advice cause I am in the same boat but I have to tell u it feels good to know I am not the only one dealing with this. I also brought my son in our bed because he was laying in his bed just whimpering with his eyes closed and I cannot just let him lay there in pain!! I won't let him cry it out either I know a lot of people say to do it but a lot of that depends on the parent too!! I would get way to stressed at letting him cry it out and therefore probably wouldn't be consistent so it probably not even work in the end!! Is there anyway u could bring her pack and play in so u could at least keep her from sleeping in your bed but still close so u could comfort her easy? Just a thought : ) I am looking forward to see the other answers!! Best of luck!!

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N.L.

answers from Tampa on

My son us 17 months and he is also teething really bad... (eye teeth and molars) I usually give him some ibuprofen (it lasts 8 hours) minutes before putting him to bed and it really works most of the time... If not I just try to put him back to sleep in the bed without picking him up. After 15 min if it doesn't work I pick him up and cuddle until he gets back to sleep... They really suffer with the teething process... Be patient....N.

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W.C.

answers from Lexington on

I let my first cry it out. All the books tell you to and everyone I've ever known says to as well. However, it had disastrous permanent consequences for him in terms of our relationship, his ability to trust anyone, his security, his confidence that I would provide for him, understand him, etc. from that week forward. However, he slept 14 hours a night soundly thereon. Our second slept through the night from the time she was six weeks old until a year, at which point food allergies created some long-term health issues which interfered with her sleep. We did not use CIO with her and she is an incredibly different child, though understandably they are going to be different individuals. Our third is 9m and we were trading nights - with her getting up 2-3x's/night for a bottle as she had ongoing ear infections and the only time she could eat was when she could eat through the pain - at night, half asleep. I am more on the side of anti-CIO than for now. But both of us were so sleep deprived that we decided we would try at 9m. Luckily, with tubes, the pain has stopped and the eating is on track and now she sleeps through the night.

In 10 years of parenting thus far, I do know some things for sure: While it is never wrong to desire to comfort your child when they in discomfort or pain, it may be beneficial to their growth and maturity to allow it. You have introduced the family bed concept. That will take forever to break if you don't do it NOW. However, some families prefer it and it certainly makes the kids more secure. My kids kick like donkeys and roll everywhere - we would never get any sleep if they were in the same bed with us. Thus, we allow them to sleep in our room if afraid, but on a pallet on the floor.

Some ppl go right to medication, some hold off as long as possible. There is no right answer there either in such a situation. Again, you have to decide what is right for you and your family and behave accordingly.

There is nothing wrong with your instincts, tho the family bed is a major commitment. I would recommend rocking her, singing to her, etc until she's able to fall back to sleep instead of hitting your bed with her for the rest of the night. If you do let her CIO, you risk certain pitfalls. However, the level of sleep deprivation may require you to do so in order to take care of yourself. Remember Maslo's hierarchy from school and be sure to take care of yourself first - if you can't you can't be a good mom. And no matter what your mom, your MIL, or any other woman tells you, in parenting there are rarely white and black situations with right and wrong answers. Each child is different and thus even when you've figured out how to parent one you have to start from scratch with the next. Good luck!

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D.W.

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I would tell you that I would use some infants motrin or infants tylenol. Alternate between the two. Next,get some hylands teething tablets. I would give her the infants motrin and the hylands teething tablets before she goes to bed at night. She is is probably getting more teeth even if you do not see anything. Try a warm bath too before she goes to bed and give her the medicine. Good luck

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