B.N.
I went through the same thing with my son but it was bath time. I also am a stay at home mom with a 1 yr old. It is hard because we are around them all the time. I notice my son still perfers me to hold him and when he cries my husband will pick him up and he will get worse until I take him. My suggestion would be to let him keep feeding him and if he cries then he cries (thats the hard part). Once he realizes he is not going to get what he wants he will eat. Maybe what you could do is have him feed him only his favorite foods. I know it can be tough when you are a stay at home mom because you are there for everything. I find myself taking over when my husband does things, because I like it done a certain way. Our son can tell and I think that has a lot to do with him not wanting to spend much time with him. That was then and this is now. He baths him everyother night and will help change diapers when he is home. The hard part now for him is brushing his teeth. Good luck and remember to have on your tough skin.
B.