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I told stories to make myself feel important through 3rd grade. It was very embarrassing when I got caught, which is probably why I stopped eventually. My parents were big on guilt and the idea of loss of trust. If they caught me in a lie once, then the next time, even if I was telling the truth and they knew it, they would refuse to believe me. Looking back, I knew they did it on purpose. They would tell me, "You say that's true, but since we know you lie to us, we don't believe you." That would hurt my feelings, but then I would try to show them I was trustworthy. When I did tell the truth in a case when my behavior would get me in trouble, I was rewarded for that.
I just want to add that I really disagree with the woman who said you should stay out of kids' fights. My friends' parents did that, and they would often bully their siblings in ways that surprised me, even through high school. My parents strictly enforced being nice to each other, and my brother and I learned to be sweet and respectful to each other at a young age, and were best friends by high school. I do not believe in letting kids work it out in most cases (obviously in minor disagreements where there is no physical contact or name calling, they can handle it themselves), because I don't think they have the skills to do so at this age. Good luck.