Hi D.,
I racked my brain about how to throw a birthday party in the winter time where you can't use the outdoors. It was tough but I finally came up with a Tinkerbell/Pirate Theme and it worked out great!
My daughter's 3 year birthday party was in Dec. and I started it at 2:00pm. We had no problems with any of the kids. There were about 10 kids and their parents at our party. There was a lot of people =0). We had it at my house. My daughter doesn't like naps anyways so having it in the afternoon was not a problem. But if your son needs to have a nap I say do the party from 12:00pm to 2:00pm. The kids will nap in the car on the way home. =0)
As I said above, my daughter's party was Tinkerbell themed. The little girls came as fairies and the boys were pirates. You can do the opposite and have a pirate party where the little girls invited get to be fairies or pink and black pirate girls. There is a lot of pink pirate stuff at Party City.
We played games such as
1. Hot potato (You could use a scarf and put gold coins in it and pass that around. You could call the game "Pass the treasure.") I used a small tinkerbell megaphone that I had purchased at the dollar store to use as decoration and give away with the favors.
2. Walk the Plank: I got a fake foam sword from Target. It was a $1. And I got a piece of ply wood that I had in the shed to use as the plank. You could just use blue painters tape and put that on the floor if you need to. I placed tape on the floor boxing three areas at the end of the plank. The first area was closest to the plank. That was area one, then I place a two in a box (Like hopscotch boxes in a straight line)and then the last box was number three. I got a blind fold and put goodies like candy and stickers in a treasure box I got from my nephew's house. I told the kids that I had pirate treasure in my treasure box. To get the treasure inside they would have to walk the plank and then jump. What ever box they landed in was how many pieces of treasure they got to choose to take home from the treasure box. So if a child jumped in the #2 box they got to pick out two pieces of treasure. The little kids were not blind folded. But the older kids where. I held the sword out so when they reached the end of the plank they knew when they had to jump. When I was ready for them to jump I took the sword away and they jumped. Kids and parents enjoyed this game. It got really funny when my 11 year old wanted to participate. The little ones were helped across the plank but they had fun jumping and earning prizes.
I did a lot more at the party. The girls made fairy wings and decorated them with glitter glue pens, gems and markers. I played tinkerbell in the background on the TV. Even the cake was in the shape of a tree with a tinkerbell candle sitting on top of it. Areas in my basement were named after areas in Pixie Hollow. So the game area was Fall Forrest and you put your presents in Winter Woods. The girls made fairy wings in Tinkers Nook and the grown ups hung out in the Mainland...where the food was. So you could do this idea but pirate themed.
The party was great!
Hope this helps you!
T.
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