Ohhhhh. Poor kiddo.
Strong 2nd to therapy.
If he'd been in a year longer the military would not only have paid for therapy, but there would have been over a months worth of classes for your son outlining some of the following + transitional help (nearly every ex servicemember has to deal with some depression when they leave whether 6mo, 6years, or 46 years. As a matter of fact, the suicide rate is fairly high. Esp amongst folks who end up having to take a low-status or no-responsibility job (like fast food) in order to pay the bills. Not because there's anything instrinsically wrong with the jobs, but because of how the employees are treated and their own self worth. You're given so much RESPECT in the military, so much RESPONSIBILITY that turning around and having someone treat lettuce, or ketchup placement like it's life and death drives a person over the brink). :
Also a suggestion or 2 about employment;
-there are dozens of mercenary companies operating stateside. Ahem. Security Consultants. Same skillset, better pay, more control, equally dicey. So if he wants to stay military, he can.
- Similar direction: there are lots of semi-military type jobs. From avionics, aircraft mechs, search and rescue, sniper schools, shooting school, martial arts training.
Similar direction : Non-miltary, but active/adrenalinish jobs: rafting guides, demolitions, scuba, climbing, parachuting, zodiac tours, boating...tons and tons of special interest type jobs.
Patience Pays: Did your son ever want to be a pilot? 4 year schools complete with financial aid actually offer a degree in flying. Or linguistics, or politics, or heck... just about every imaginable thing. Specialized skills are also taught by schools (like underwater demo, or ATC, or horse training, or paramedics.
Your son has OPTIONS but if he's depressed he probably can't SEE them. Therapy &/or meds will help him see those options.