Hello Beth! My child has been seeing a pediatric specialist since he was about 12 months old. He will be 5 next month. His left eye turned up and out. Not all the time, but it became worse and worse. First of all, we began patching his "good eye" to make him use his "bad eye" more. It seemed to work, but mostly just with the patch on. We did this until Oct. of last year. And finally had surgery, which I wished we had done early on b/c he was older and knew more. It was the muscles in his eyes that were not tight enough. So, she went in and tightened the muscles on the inside (to pull eye back in) and loosened them on the outside. He did very well with the surgery, although the anesthesia made him very aggitated while trying to wake up. But now, the muscles are too tight on the inside, so his eye turns in when looking at things up close. At a distance, he is fine, but up close, it turns pretty bad. We are back to patching for 6 months and if not better, we will have to endure surgery again. I am glad they can repeat surgery to fix it, BUT I dread having to put him through that again. I will say this much for your benefit.... if something is not done, your child could suffer permanent vision loss in that eye b/c what happens is when the eye turns in or turns out, over a period of time, it will begin to shut itself off b/c it doesnt like seeing double. Luckily my child has not suffered any vision loss b/c we did the patching and made him use that eye. But my nephew on the other hand, has lost some vision in one of his eyes. He is 8, but didnt realize he had an issue until he began school b/c it wasnt really noticeable. So kuddos to your MIL for noticing this so early. My child however, was noticeable and for that I am thankful. So I would suggest surgery early on if possible and until then, ask about the patching b/c you need to keep that eye working and trying to focus. And sometimes that is all it takes is the patching. Which I hope will clear yours up. That would be great. But dont dread it to the point of no return sort of speak. I hope this helps your feeling. BTW... I have a baby who just turned 8 months old and his peditrician noticed a slight turn in his eyes at a check-up where we had not noticed it. So, we are taking him in the next few months to see our same ped opthamologist. Good Luck and please keep us posted.