It doesn't sound to me like she is ready. You want this more than she does and it's never going to happen that way. I will tell you from experience training my daughter that by pushing it in any way, shape or form will only backfire on you. My daughter was fully trained for months (I also waited to start until AFTER the birth of baby brother) and then regressed and started going in her pants simply because she didn't want to stop playing to go (her words). I was furious! I tried punishments, rewards, making her clean herself up, you name it. It ended up becoming a control issue and there are two things you can't make kids do....pee or poop in the potty and eat. Making either of those issues a battle will get you absolutely nowhere fast. She eventually got the hang of it again when I amped up the reward, but it had to be when SHE wanted to do it and that was SO hard for me to accept. We were beyond the point of going back to diapers, so we just had to wait it out. Looking back, I truly believe that if I hadn't made such a big deal out of it at the time, it would never have lasted as long. It became a power struggle and she knew she could win. My son is now almost 2 1/2 and we talk about the potty and he sits on it when he wants to, but I refuse to force the issue because I will not go down that road again. All it did was frustrate and upset everyone involved. I would continue to reward her when she does it, but until she is more consistent with it, I would not make it a big deal. Once you feel like she has the hang of it, then you can play up the big girl panties and go from there. I wish you the best of luck. It was a very frustrating time for me and for my daughter and I hope to have better success with my son in that he will do it on his timetable and it won't be a power struggle. Stress free potty training (if there is such a thing) is my goal this time around! Good luck!