J.G.
I too am right there with you. I feel horrible for my poor husband. I was watching Dr. Oz and amazingly this came UP! He suggested L'Arginine Supplements which are to help dialate the blood vessels in the clitorial area. Should be about $10 at the heath food store. Honestly, I haven't tried them ... YET! I look at my sticky note every day with this written on it. I'm waiting to be done with breastfeeding (as I have a 5 month old) and will then give it a try.