Well no matter her age, you are 'responsible' for her for her Parents, because she resides with you per college schedules.
You are to answer to her parents.
She is their child, and she is living with you.
Why haven't you talked to her about it yet?
You should.
There needs to be communication between you all.
Right?
Who the heck is this man anyway?
The thing is, she is residing with you all and you are responsible for her.
For her parents.
Even if she is 18.
Sure, kids this age even is 18, are not rocket scientists nor are they worldly enough to make smart decisions.
They are having sex. It is experimenting.
Hope she doesn't get pregnant!
When I was that age, I met a guy that was 7 years older than me. Met him at a nightclub.
We dated.
BUT, even if I was 18, HE.... made sure he met my parents because he did not want them to get the wrong idea about him. HE was a mature responsible guy, although older than me. HE was not irresponsible, nor treated me like a young-thing that he was dating. There was respect.
He and I were together for 4, years. My parents, adored him. He was a responsible respectful Man.... and was working hard and very smart. He took me seriously... not as a young-thing fling. And he as the older guy with a young-thing girlfriend.
At first, my Dad thought this guy, because he was 7 years older than me and I was only 18, my Dad thought this guy was just using me and as a fling for fun. Which is valid assumptions. Because guys, do do this. But... the Man I was seeing, initiated ALL the proper manners of meeting my parents and proving himself... to them. He knew I was young... thus he maturely made sure, that our involvement was up and up. To them.
In any case, no matter what... you need to meet this guy.
She resides with you.
You are responsible for her.
For her parents.
Her parents, would want to know about her life, right?
Do you communicate with her parents????
The way you start... is just sit her down and talk to her.
Why be afraid of that?
Just start.
You and your Husband.
Yes, she is 18. She is experimenting. Hopefully she is not 'dumb' or naive. At this age, it is all about guys and experimenting and who knows what else.
As I said, I hope she doesn't get pregnant.
What then?
At the least, you need to talk to her about STD's and birth control. Unless you say nothing, due to her age, and then, wing it.
What are her parents, expecting of you???? Per her life and your keeping her while she goes to college and residing with you?
It is your house, your rules.
She is behaving like a 16 year old.
Not an "adult."
Her maturity, per her behavior... is seriously lacking.
She is just using your home as a motel.
And her parents are not around, so she is fully taking her whims, to the max. She does not feel, she has to answer to anyone.
Personally, the guy she is 'dating'... seems like a Jerk.
NO decent guy, would be doing that nor having her sneak out of the house nor picking her up at 2:00am or whatever.
She is not in her bed.
She is in his, bed.
It is that obvious.
Hope she doesn't get any STD's or Aids or get pregnant.
The older guy, is having a fun fling, with his 18 year old chick.