E.K.
I can relate - I work a full time job and balance volunteer activities as well...it seems like there is never enough time in the day. Have you ever sat down and talked with the kids about you going back to work? How old are the other children? If they are older, its time for them to take some responsibility around the house. Sure, it will be a change for them, but it will help you out. There is NOTHING worse than washing dishes before you go to bed, and then discovering a full sink and messy kitchen when you get home from work the next day!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with teaching your kiddos how to take care of chores around the house...they don't LIKE it, but one day they will thank you for it. Making them responsible and creating some type of reward system may help- maybe taking them to a movie when you can spare a couple of hours or even sit down and watch a movie - connect with them at some point during the week, even if its just making time to ALL sit down together at the dinner table together. Anything as a family will do wonders! About me - I have 3 daughters - 19, 16 and 12. I have always worked, with the exception of a few months after they were born. My oldest is now in college (just moved back yesterday!) and my other two are involved in 4-H and other school related activities. We stay busy between work, home and other activities but you can strike a balance and be happy. I am sure with you working, your family is in an adjustment phase and things will work out..just make sure you talk to everyone in your home about how you feel and I am sure things will be fine. Good luck!
~K