H.W.
I do the most of it. We have a parking strip, full front garden-- mixed cottage garden with veggies and some grass paths, a side yard which is mostly grass and native plants, and the back yard which has bulbs, herbs, two kinds of berry bushes and more grass.
I hate grass. If I had a million dollars, I wouldn't go on vacation or buy a new house. I would have the grass removed. Hate.It. !!!
My husband deals with some of the grass with the mower/weed whacker. He's the guy who prunes the high spots on the trees or puts the bird block over the cherry tree. Much of the paths and right around the plants, I use a sickle. I like fussing over some of the plants, pruning... love my flowers, so it's worth it. I have shasta daisies, huge drifts of pink alstromeria, wallflower and some poppies all in bloom right now....it's lovely. Later this summer I'll have my sunflowers, more poppies, zinnias and a second round of alstromeria and hydrangea. My son helps M. do some of the seed planting and loves to dig in any patch of available dirt. I maintain it as best I can so it looks presentable, and then prioritize according to what's looking worst at the moment. For example, my ferns didn't get trimmed last year, but you can't really tell--- the big weeds growing in the chard or around the new zinnias or sunflowers? They get my first attention. Also, whatever makes it hard for people to pass by or get out of their cars also gets prioritized above the invasive native in the side yard. It's good to learn what to ignore...!