Xxx Problems - Any Suggestions?

Updated on January 05, 2011
T.M. asks from Gainesville, GA
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Im 36 weeks pregnant and still active between the sheets with DH. Lately Ive found I cant find a comfortable position and its driving me up the wall. Not to mention my husband. Ive got 4 weeks before DD #2 gets here and would like to get what I can while I can before I cant for a long tome... lol This is funny and embarassing to me, but I need advice. My husbands coming home early today and i'd like to figure this out before he gets here. Ive got mabe 30 minutes depending on traffic. Please Help a Momma out!! Thanks in advance.

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J.C.

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Woman on back with thick pillow under butt. Only way I could breath when I was that far along. "Doggie Style" worked sometimes, but sometimes I just needed to be on my back, so the pillow did the trick.

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L.A.

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My second one is sitting way, way out front so ALL of our usual favorites went out the window a while ago.

I assume you've tried it, but we are crazy about the spooning sex. It wasn't too great with our first kiddo but we've more or less mastered it now. (And I love it.) This is clear right? Both on our sides, man behind woman...and if you've tried it and it didn't quite work my DH swears by a pillow under his hip.

That's the best I got...but if it's good it's the best there is. Good luck!

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P.G.

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Depending on the height of the bed, perhaps you lying on your back with your torso just at the edge of the bed and him standing - that way there's no weight on your stomach at all. Good luck ;)

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E.A.

answers from Erie on

A chair, with him sitting down. Or a narrow STURDY coffee table, with him on the bottom.

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A.N.

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I second spooning! Worked well for us!

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K.F.

answers from New York on

If at first you don't succeed. Try try again.

Seriously, try different things. You may need to try a position where you have more control over your body position and manipulate how shallow or deep hubby goes.

Hope this helps. Wish you the best. Have fun. ;-)

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I.L.

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I laughed reading your post, I remember those days!

Have you tried both of you on your side? Him from behind, you on your knees? In the end of pregnancy these were the only positions that worked for us.

Good luck and congrats on baby #2!

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M.C.

answers from Minneapolis on

Tried on your knees...ahem "doggy style" cough! My fav for last few weeks, or DD standing next to bed and you at edge of bed. Another easy one...gotta love the big ol' belly being in the way :)

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H.V.

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Spooning was the best for me. No pressure on my back or belly. "doggy" sometimes worked.
I was able to be on top but wasnt really comfortable doing it because I did NOT feel sexy.

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M.M.

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Oooh, only thing comfortable for me at the very end was bent over, bracing my arms on the bed or shower bench.
Sorry, not very creative!

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J.B.

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have you tried laying on your side? that worked for me when i was that far along.

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