C.J.
Ok...I would refuse baby food at this point also....so as for bananas, carrots, peaches, pears, avacado, anything you eat....to an extent put it in front of him (the safe way...cut up, diced, mashed a little, but so that he can chew, swallow ect...) and let him go to town....just watch him....give him a spoon and fork, and let him feed himself....He is going to get messy, but let him...it is and goes with the process....My daughter loved feeding herself! They will not starve, and will eat it if given the chance to feel like they have some say in what in goes in their mouth....give him whatever you want.....One that my daughter loved was bread sticks with hummus....she could dip it...loves dipping....she is 3 now, and still loves to dip things...LOL