We have been to the Wilderness Lodge Resort as Vacation Club members.
It is wonderful. We loved it very much. The Whispering Canyon restaurant is great and fun, I love the architecture of the buildings, the pool is great and you take a boat to get to the Magic Kingdom. It's refreshing to have a different way to travel other than the bus system.
We have also stayed at the Animal Kingdom resort and loved it also.
It was great to wake up in the morning, look out your window and see wild animals.
For cheaper lodgings, we stayed at the French Quarter, its Disney so we had fun but certainly not at the same level as the other two we have been too.
REally look at how you get from the resorts to the parks and where the resorts are located. Then, decide where you think you might go the most. Time is of the essence and you don't want to waste time sitting on a bus all day.
Have a great time...you will no matter where you stay!