B.G.
E...I would not worry about this.. I have a 2.5 year old girl and an 8 month old. And I give my 2.5 year old whole milk and my pediatrician says it is fine.. that is the least of your worries.. you are doing great.. I am sure you are an awesome mom.. Who cares.. right.. Whole milk i feel and so does my hubby and my doc is healthier..
Just think of it this way, what about when our parents back in the day didn't have all of these special products and etc.. I am one of 5 and My mom gave us whole milk and we are all doing well.. ahahahahaaah seriously..
Good Luck
Barb G.