T.N.
My husband was involved in Boy Scouts as a leader and was so busy with all the meetings and trainings and campouts that I felt like I NEVER saw him. The time he actually spent with the boys (which I tried to be supportive of) was so small compared to all the administrative stuff and paperwork and roundtable meetings, planning meetings, etc, that I was very frustrated with the whole experience. Maybe if we had a child in the troop I would have felt a little differently about it. But I hated all the extra stuff and red tape that I saw as a waste of time.