What Would You Offer??

Updated on April 10, 2010
K.H. asks from Denton, TX
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Hi Mamas,

I am in need of your great advice. Here is my question. What would you offer for a person to take care of your two children? I have a 2 1/2 year old that is potty trained and a little one due in June. I have found someone I am interested in to care for my two children in their home two days a week. I would be brining them to her and dropping them off around 6:00am or so and picking them up around 5-5:30pm. Maybe a little earlier. This would only be two days a week and from time to time maybe a third day. What is the going rate for something like this? I have a current sitter who I have a special deal with, but I wanted to know your opinions. I would prefer someone to come to my house, but I don't have much more time, being that I need someone by the first of August to start. This person seems like they will be a great fit, but I don't want to be out any more money than I have to be. I want great care for my kids so I am willing to pay for it. She would only be taking care of my kids and she is a stay at home wife with no children.
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S.S.

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Hi, I am in Illinois. I can give you some comparable rates. A full day is considered to be 7-9 hours. Anything over that is considered a "long" or overtime day. For a day such as this with a new born and a 2 1/2 yr old I would charge $50 minimum probably closer to $60 per day. you are actually talking ablout close to 12 hour days. you won't find many sitters who do 12 hour shifts for the same pay as an 8 hour day. I would plan at the very least $125 a week for those 2 days. newborns require a lot more hands on care and sitters charge accordingly. Nanny's charge anywhere from $10 to $15 an hour.

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H.M.

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I am taking care of my neighbors 2 month old from 6:30am-4pm two sometimes 3 days a week. They are paying me $75 a day.

C.M.

answers from St. Louis on

I don't know for sure how daycare rates are there compared to IL but here, two full days a week is considered part-time and I think anything around $300 per child per month is normal (that is assuming that normal daycare rates around here at the low end are $500 for full time).

But since it's only 2 days a week, maybe you could talk with her. Is she expecting something like $5 an hour? That would end up costing more like $400-500 a month. I would suggest offering her a set rate per week - for 2 or 3 days no matter how many hours.

Maybe $100 a week? Or if that is too much, offer her $75.

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A.

answers from Dallas on

Well, you have to pay more for her to come to your house. You need to compare nanny rates, rather than chilcare center, or in home center rates. You get those cheaper because their are more children, so less one on one for your kiddos. In home is also cheaper because of several children, and they can still get stuff done at their house throughout the day..and keep their own children. So those are not fair comparisons. You are going to have to pay at least $10 per hour in my opinion. Especially because that is a long day. I never worked for more than 10 hours in a day, so you should comp well for that. There are many nannies who make more than that, but this woman does not sound like she has past experience. Not sure if that helps, but its something to consider. Call nanny agencies and go from there. ~A.~

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J.M.

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I would offer 10/hour for your "regular" hours and 12/hour for "extra" hours (like if you need some time on a third day). Good luck.

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D.W.

answers from Indianapolis on

I'd start calling day care providers in your area and asking what their going rates are and use those as an example of where you should be.

Have you asked this person yet what kind of compensation she's looking for? With our first child, we were going to take him to a day care facility when the mother of a neighbor became available. We paid her what we would have paid the day care facility because it was more convenient and one-on-one care.

Call in-home day care providers and see what they charge.
We spent almost $20K in a reasonable day care facility in 2009 for 2 full-time kids (1 in the one-year-old room and the other in the toddler room). Another friend found in home care for her 2 kids for $25/day each, but it was completely unstructured and not a good environment long-term.

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