L.B.
RN-Our 12 hour shifts are really 13 - 14 hour shifts spent most of the time running our @$$ off at times without even a lunch break. Then we go home and care for our family for the hour or two left of the evening, go to bed and back to work. We don't get weekends or holidays off.
When you see nurses at the nurses station and you think that we are just hanging around, what we really are doing is making calls to the MD, waiting for important information about your loved ones health, charting, discussing a patient's condition, faxing something, maby stopping after 10 hours of running to catch our breath and destress a few minutes.
We are here to help you get better and I will do the best I can to get to your call light the minute before you ring it, but if I am in another room doing CPR on another patient - I am sorry, your need, unless it is life or death will have to wait until I revive the patient in the next room. My job is not to wipe your @$$ if you are perfectly capable of doing that yourself. Of course if you are too ill or have a condition that prevents you from managing your own hygiene I will be glad to assist you.
We sometimes go an entire 12 hour shift without peeing!
We get yelled at by patients, doctors, other nurses, patients a.nd patient's families for things that are not our fault and we just grin and bear it, well most of the time
We get the cold shoulder if we call out sick even though we may have a temp. of 105 degrees
Please do not yell at me because the doctor, lab, another department etc... screwed up - Nurses really do take the blame for everyone else's misdeeds. Please don't call me and ask for water, and after I run around getting you ice, cup and water and bring it too you, don't ask me to get you some crackers and then when I bring them to you ask for something else, Please ask for everything at once, it will save me a lot of time and you will benefit because I will beable to spend more time with you.
We do not get paid enough for what we do.
Inspite of all of this most nurses were meant to be nurses and we love our patient's even the grouchy ones. We will go miles to protect and advocate for you, even though you don't know it. We really are they eyes and ears for the doctor, I can't tell you how many times a doctor has said to a nurse, "what would you do", "what do you think we should do", what do you think is wrong with her" I am serious, they don't know it, because we are very crafty in the way that we are the ones that tell the doctor what to do.
We save lives, treat pain, treat all your conditions and ailments and we really do care. It is not a job that you can do unless you really want to do it.
Oh, and I forgot we frequently talk about bowel movements and other gross things at the dinner table!