Well, for me this is a tough one, because so far, the motto, eat what is on your plate has worked for us. My kids have tried to refuse things, but never really gotten away with it for too long, they get pretty hungry when I dont give them what they want!! That said, I too recognize that all kids are different, so my suggestion would be pack him some cut up turkey and cheese, maybe with a few crackers. Mine really love toothpicks at that age, so some blunt toothpicks are a great way to get kids to eat fun things. They eat turkey and cheese, as well as fruit that way. I would always throw in a few things you want him to try, mixed in with his favorites. Maybe 2 strawberries cut up, with the turkey and cheese, and try the fizzit gogurt..my kids love them. Please be sure he is getting a vitamin too. And, you can heat up chicken nuggets, wrap them in foil, and he might like that too. Do not just give him a bunch of junk..cookies, fruit snacks, chips etc, maybe one special snack (small in portion cuz he will eat that first) and then the rest foods you want him to eat..again in very small portions so it does not seem overwhelming. Let him head to the store and pick out what he is willing to try, from the list of approved items that is. And, if he likes hot soups or pastas, get a thermos...my kids love that too. Will he eat applesauce BTW?? Really my best advice is to stop catering to him. No more argument, no more discussion even. Dont give him something like liver etc..but if it a reasonable dinner, mixed with things you know he will eat, that is it, when he is done..no matter how hard or long he cries, there is nothing else PERIOD!!! He will not starve himself, I promise. If you only offer healthy foods, he will have to learn to eat them. I know it sounds harsh, but really, it is the only way to get him to eat....again, only if he does not have some kind of special need that truly makes him adverse to taste or texture etc. Good luck, this sounds like a tough battle to face, but the earlier you do it, the happier you will be!! ~A.~