L.H.
Hi T.,
I think many kids try lying at some point. My youngest of 4 (who is now 7) went through a lying phase. It kind of drove my crazy that she would flat out not tell me the truth even when i knew she was lying! We handled it calmly and and emphatically emphasized that lying was not OK. Whatever she did was not nearly as bad as not telling the truth.
I'm not big into time-outs, but when she would lie, I told her she would have to stay on the couch or in her room until she could tell me the truth. The first 2 or 3 times, this was a long time!! She did not want to give in. She was dramatic, tears and all. But hated being away from everyone. The hardest part was for her to admit wrong and verbalize it. But when she finally did, she felt better and I loved on her for doing the right thing.
Lying still pops up now and again but we handle it firmly. She knows that it is not funny or cute. You will be glad to nip it now especially with a little brother watching. I think my other kids who were a bit older than her at the time, learned from watching her go through that. :)
A little about me: mom of 4 (ages 7-13), married for 15 years. I have enjoyed every age and stage so far (OK-except potty training!)-they all have there joys and challenges!