What to Do? I'm at a Loss!

M.,

I understand how hard it is to plan around holidays, but moving too must be crazy. My son's bday is in Dec, right before Christmas so we have to plan for indoors too. There is a place here in town called ABQ jump. It is where they have a bunch of indoor bouncers and slides. You could take the little one down the slides with you, and the other kids will be able to slide or bounce on their own. We went there for my nephew's party and kids and parents of all ages enjoyed it. They have packages in all ranges, and you can bring in pretty much what you want with cake and drinks. Hope this is a helpful idea. Good Luck!
S.

When my little girl turned one, I realized that the huge ordeal I went through to plan a big party was unnecessary. She's my first (and only), so I had no clue how much it wouldn't matter to her. She was more than happy with a chocolate cupcake to eat (and make messes with) and a few brightly colored balloons.

So, it's my opinion that the party you're planning should probably just focus around what you think is best. Since you're in the middle of a somewhat stressful situation, you shouldn't add more stress on top of it. Get a pizza (or a few), some juice/soft drinks and a party cake. If you have a lot of children in your life, then the "Albuquerque Jumps" idea is a great one. There's also places like "ITZ" and "HOOTS" that'll entertain little ones for a short period of time.

Mostly, I think that people understand the importance of a first birthday party while acknowledging that the little one isn't quite as concerned. So, everyone you know and love will be quite happy with whatever you plan, regardless of how elaborate. =)

Oh and last, but probably most important... I think it would be in your best interest to have a tiny family gathering on his actual birthday and wait for the "big party" until after Thanksgiving. This would make it easier on yourself AND your guests.

Good luck, and Happy Birthday to your littlest one!

You could just have a small little cake for him on his birth date but plan an "official party" till you get settled in the new home.
Maybe a housewarming birthday party.

Happy B Day Little One!!

Gymboree party? Good luck, maybe you should try for the following weekend?