I know none of you are doctors :)
But I love asking you guys stuff!
This is more of a, "has this happened to you" kinda thing...
So I'm really confused as to my current state of mind. There has been no drastic changes recently, no fights nothing.
BUT
For the last week I have NO interest in having sexual relations (hehehe) with my b/f ..
For me this is really WEIRD. I'm usually the type that wants in all the time. I have never felt like this before.
The strangest part, is last night... We were laying in bed cuddling. Every time my b/f would touch my leg or rub my back, I got annoyed..I felt like I didn't want him to touch me.. WHAT IS THAT!?!?
Under normal times, i pretty much am always thinking of sexy time with him. I mean always lol
I am NOT pregnant. It is NOT that time of the month. I just can not figure out what changed...
I don't like it...:(
@ Christine.. I actually never saw the weight as a turn off. I mean he gained the weight a few years ago and I never had a problem feeling sexual to him.
Up until the last couple days, I still had that butterfly feeling in my stomach every time we kissed or he touched me. I would get all giddy just thinking about him.
@Nellie93 it does SUCK! I feel so shitty! I love him more than anything! He hasn't done anything to warrant me feeling this way.
sounds like you might be stressing over something subconsciously that is bothering you about him....to be honest - like you are tired of just being the girlfriend, you want more?
I don't know...that's the only think of!!
This has happened and it is not because I don't want my husband. Sometimes the day or week is just so harried or so much is going on I cannot stand if he touches me at all. Even a foot massage is annoying.
I agree with Cheryl.
Sounds like you're actually not digging your relationship anymore.
I didn't read other posters, but wanted to give my input...I am 39, been very happily married for 18 yrs (on 9-18) and there are times when I don't want to be touched or bothered! I have lots of female medical issues, so I think, no matter if you are ovulating or it's your period, your hormones are always fluxuating. (sp) I especially get that way w/ PMS (and sometimes, that's 2 weeks before my period!) And ya know what else...sometimes, just LIFE makes ya not want to be bothered! I agree, though...it does SUCK! Because deep down, you WANT to want it, right? Hang in there...go do something for an hour that makes you happy, then you might BOTH be happy! As the saying goes, if mamas happy, everyone's happy! LOL...good luck and I hope you get your spunk back soon!
I just read your answer to another question about men gaining weight. You mentioned that your boyfriend gained about 70 pounds in the past three years. Could that be even more of a turn off?
