I like what one poster said: "Make them some food.". Make a casserole
for the parents!
I loved & needed an abundance of:
-wipes
-diapers
-burp cloths
-bottles & nipples in "slow flow, medium flow then flast flow" to supplement breast feeding or for when someone else is to feed the baby.
-an extra pacifier or two in case they use them.
-definitely baby rash ointment
-infant tylenol for when the baby is older & starting to teethe
-baby monitor (ok not small but I loved mine!)
-a basket full of things (a baby thermometer, pacifier, nipples, plastic
bottles, burp cloths in a basket wrapped in cellophane)
-those stretchy blankets to swaddle!
-sm pack of baby spoons for when they start to feed baby food
-cute painted letters spelling out the baby's name. Loved this!
-baby towel (soft, fuzzy, no hood though....they weren't helpful)
An certificate to offer to come help mom & give her break.
A basket for mom: a magazine, sm box of chocolates, a jar of Jelly Bellies labeled "Headache Reliever", warm fuzzy socks for mom, small
frame for sonogram, #1 dad shirt for dad, sm silver charm that says "mom", eye mask for when she needs to sleep during the day, hand held massager (doesn't have to be the vibrating kind) so someone can get the knots out of her back while she's holding the baby.