Nothing wrong with asking this question. I think this is a great forum for asking any question that deals with YOUR life right now. Maybe next year you will be jobless, or pregnant with sore nipples, or in the midst of an emotional breakdown...and you will find ladies to help you then too!
My husband and I went without the kiddos to the Bahamas last Spring. (It was a work trip) We stayed at the Atlantis in the Royal Towers. It was an all around amazing trip. There is so much to do on the site. Their is an incredible aquarium IN the hotel lobby..yes IN the hotel lobby. There is a Kids Fun Zone, gym, high end salon, teen dance club, adult dance club, movie theatre, build a bear, pottery making place,casino,bar, yacht club, high end shopping mall etc. Some activities are free some you pay.
Outside is an amazing experience. There is a lazy river and rapids as well as waterslides and multiple pools to play in all day long..for free. There is gorgeous beach access too. They have a dolphin experience too where you swim with and train a dolphin.
Have a great trip no matter where you go....and don't feel guilty for being able to fit this in your budget. Good job!! Cancun is somewhere we'd love to go. We are heading to Cabo San Lucas this Spring...for hubby's work again.