Hiya--I am just finding the time to check old emails, and wanted to see what others said re: your post...like you, I am sorry to see so few responses...
I can't add any tips. But I also---PLEASE don't other posters take offense--felt a little overwhelmed by those lists...like, I can't go without paper...I ALWAYS used to use cloth napkins--I used cloth bibs and diapers...but now that I have a toddler and he's so fast...so yeah, I do use unbleached recycled paper napkins when laundry isn't done.
I guess I have 2 rules that help me:
1. 80-20.
To keep myself from going crazy with guilt, I've made an 80% rule--my goal is to bring reusable bags 100% of the time--but that doesn't happen--but I can live with 80% and not get crazy. Ditto with meat (to not eat). Ditto cloth to paper.
2. My own personal virtue will not save the planet. Good government will.
So, I work to make government as green as possible. I have a law degree and the thing that amazed me the most was that it is the LOCAL government that has a lot of say over environmental policies.
I am an activist with the W PA Sierra Club and I feel really, really good about the political work that we do. I KNOW it makes a difference.
3 yrs ago, the Sierra Club--along with many other environmental groups--began a mercury campaign in response to the Bush Admin's rule softening.
My friends and I held a petition drive and got people to pack meetings----and citizens WERE LEGITIMATELY AFRAID of the mercury levels in W PA--nearly the highest in the nation--and both Churchill Borough and Forest Hills Borough formally asked the DEP to set the toughest standards in the country. That had the effect of 60,000 citizens petitioning. The DEP complied.
That makes me feel when better son my son spills his milk and I haven't done laundry and I have to use an unbleached, recycled paper towel. Not perfect, but 80%.
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