R.J.
I'm not in a church... but here are some of my favorite things that friends' and neighbors churches and synagogues and mosques do:
- Find out who needs help following/during birth, death, surgery, divorce and gets food, childcare, cleaning help to them.
- Naptime hangouts (biblestudy or bridge... it's stay at home parents arranging to get some grownup time while the kids are sleeping)
- Finds out sports and activities that the kids are interested in and form "clubs" (gets other parents / non-parent church members involved). Some examples are the Ski/Snowboard club that goes up twice a month in the winter time, the chess club that meets once a week, the referee club, the football club, the drama club, the language club, the dance club, the hockey club, the piano club, the guitar club, the gardening club, the biology club, builders club.
This is one of my absolute FAVS because a) it gets everyone involved and is on a volunteer basis / really gives people an opportunity to give back using their skills and gifts, and creates a great sense of community and b) activities are EXPENSIVE. Doing them for free via the church creates more well rounded and more highly educated kiddos that would otherwise not have the opportunity to. NOT just for those who can't afford activities, but also for those who do to budget constraints can only pick 1, and for those who could excel given the extra attention that an added venue and instructors provide and c) teaches giving back by example. A lot of kids only see 'giving back' or 'outreach' to those who are truely desperate (homeless shelters, habitat for humanity, etc.). But no matter WHAT your interest is, there are kids who would love to learn it. These clubs often have openhouse days where the kids in the club volunteer to teach OTHER kids (often the younger ones) from a local school, etc.