T.C.
Hi A.,
The best gifts our son got for his first birthday was a set of puppets, and old fashioned top (the kind you have to pump), and the Vteck Rock & Sing musical car.
He still plays with all of them, and he's now 3.
The worst gift: a car toy with a steering wheel, horn, ignition, radio, etc. It was waaaay too loud, and every time he tried to play with it, he'd just cry. We ended up leaving it in the box and returning it to the store.
Also, as an OT, we were taught toys are age-rated by the toy companies to hit just 'after' their developmental stage, so that a child will know how to play with it right away, but not "learn" any new developmental skills. -- For example: a child begins developing fine motor skills between 6 and 9 months of age, but you won't find any "good" fine motor toys rated for kids *under* 9 months, because they don't want the parents to get put-off because their child can't play with the toy "well" right away, and has to go through a learning process (see? marketing tactic -- you'll purchase more from a toy company if you think your child "likes" their toys right off the bat). For a 1 year old, you may want to look for toys rated for 18 month or 2 year olds: he won't play with them "well" right away, but he'll get more developmental learning out of it.
This doesn't mean you shouldn't get him toys rated for his age, or even under. A child can learn from almost any toy.
Fun birthday!
T