Weird Poster Pm'd Me and Used My First Name??

Updated on January 27, 2012
A.M. asks from Sterling Heights, MI
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A 15 yr. old or someone posing as a 15 yr. old left a question on this site whining about her mother. I responded publicly saying this was not an appropriate use of this site and she should talk to a counselor at school. A couple of hours later, she sent me a personal message and used my first name in it. It was creepy. I don't think I have my first name available anywhere on this site. When I went back to look at her question, it had been deleted. I am sure many people (including myself) had reported it as inappropriate.

She wrote "-------, please help me." and then proceeded to whine about her mother again. How did she get my first name? Why would she be doing this? Have I somehow made my account or email address vulnerable?

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So What Happened?

Thanks. I guess I'll fix that. I didn't realize my name was public. I didn't really want it public either. Glad it wasn't just me who received that weird message.

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

There is a difference between a "user name" and a "screen name."
So check your profile and adjust it as you wish.
Per privacy for yourself.

Or per THIS site, there is when you sign up, a "Online Nickname" fill in the blank, and a "First Name" and "Last Name" fill in the blank section.
And if you put your name, in either one, then your name will be evident.

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✩.!.

answers from Los Angeles on

Yep... everyone is right. We can see "your real name". You need to change your "name" in your profile, inlcuding your screen name to all reflect Love Being Mommy

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J.✰.

answers from San Antonio on

If you want to change that, go into your account "EDIT PROFILE" and edit your first and last name. I think mine is JessTX and my last name is the star symbol.

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L.A.

answers from Denver on

When they went to send you a PM it says right across the top what your name is. I can see yours.
It sounds like that person sent a lot of people PM's. Hopefully they wont come back.

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C.B.

answers from Boston on

I got the same private message too, but do not recall the poster using my name. Still, it was awkward getting a private message from someone I did not send a message to. I think this person somehow hacked into Mamapedia and sent a bunch of people the same message. I found the person who sent the message very childish and whiny, not at all like most of the posts here that genuinely ask for information. I decided just to ignore it. You could try to contact Mamapedia, perhaps by going through the Help menu top right? Feel free to mention my account name (since Mamapedia should be able to find our real info) and let them know I also got that personal message. I did respond to a dad who was asking about the weird posting, so there were others who got that whiny message from a teen (certainly sounded like an immature person). Cheers.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

Could've gotten your name from reading older posts or from your profile.

there are some creepy people out there and on this site....you will find them everywhere. I've had one person from here on my back - I just ignore her - figure she's a sad, small person. She's finally stopped PMing me! YAY!!! :)

This troll that you speak of appears to have PM'ed MANY people on here begging for assistance...stating he/she/it (as started out as a girl, then a boy, etc.) he/she/it will continue to post the question until it does not get pulled. Whatever.

Your e-mail address is not available unless this troll is VERY computer savy and used your IP address to track you down.

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J.W.

answers from St. Louis on

Yeah, what everyone else said.

He is a troll!!

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☆.A.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Creepy! I know, I've had some really creepy, underhanded experiences on here...well mostly just O. weirdo.....ignore it. Not worth your time or attention!

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K.H.

answers from Wausau on

I noticed when you send a flower to someone (like you sent me) your name pops up...

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