Well, just so ya know, your body will never be the same as it was before having a baby...even if you do lose all the weight! I have the darndest time with weight loss too...here are some things that I try to do that have worked...they are not instant result methods, but gradually over time will make a difference.
1. I eat a huge Breakfast and Lunch, so that I have all day to burn off those calories. For dinner I go light...I'll drink a Slimfast shake and a glass of water OR I'll have a fruit smoothie and a glass of water. If I still feel hungry after that, I drink more water!
2. Thirst often disguises itself as hunger, so when you feel the urge to eat or snack, think WATER!!! I keep a water bottle on my countertop to remind myself to SNACK ON WATER!!!
3. Keep busy! I try not to watch ANY TV or do a lot of sedintary activity till the evening when my kids are all in bed! I keep busy doiing housework, outdoor work, etc.
4. WALK!!! I like to walk outside pushing the baby in the stroller. Walk briskly, walk hills...these will give you a workout that is manageable, but more than just a stroll.
5. Be Satisfied with who you are and how you look!!! This is more important than stepping on the scales everyday...I tell myself: "I want to FEEL good, I want to FEEL like I'm flexible, have energy, and FEEL happy about my body" I literally have to say this outloud to myself or else I'll get discouraged about only losing 2 lbs. in a month!!! The important thing is FEELING healthy, strong and happy...slowly, the weight will come off and will motivate you even more! :)
Keep it up!..don't give up!