We are going through this now as well. Last month we had an accepted offer on our house; that is, until the inspector came thru with the couple and totally scared them off! That was the last we heard of them. We just had another inspection done last week for a different couple, and the outcome was much different - we agreed to split the cost of some minor repairs with them and the deal is proceeding as we speak. So, yes, it does happen - our realtor says she sees it all the time - people get freaked out over the idea of having anything "wrong" with the house they're buying, and then either walk away or want to negotiate the price down even further. You CAN say "no" to certain things, or give a small credit for repairs at closing, but if there are any structural problems they will need to be addressed immediately. It doesn't sound like you will have that problem, though, will such a young house (ours was built in 1926, so, yeah, there are lots of quirks to it). Unless you are selling your home yourselves, it is usually left to the lawyers to hammer out all the final details so they can be included in the contract. Best of luck! I know first hand how nerve-wracking it can be!