Me and my husband were talking about having another baby we already have two children who are four and two. but here the catch I got my tubes tied but now regreating it. I was supposed to have them clapped but the doctor cut and tied them what should I do?
wow T. thats sad to hear! U know i would go to another dr and ask there option on ur chances of getting pregnate if u did spend the money. Also tell what they did. If a dr did something u did not ask 4 u may get this undone 4 free! Im sure undoing this would cost the dr alot less than being sued! I would ck into it. best of luck!
R.
My cousin had her tubes tied. After she re-married decided to have another baby. They just harvested her eggs, implanted and her and her husband conceived naturally from there. GOOD LUCK!
Hi T.,
I hear the reversal surgery for that is vey expensive. I think that if you are willing to put the money and the recovery time into it, then its worth doing for you to have another baby.
I dont know how you feel about adoption, but that can also be another option. There are allot of kids out there that need good homes. When I gave birth to my third baby this past summer there was a young mom in the hospital room next to me that gave birth to a little girl and she didnt want her. They never brought the baby to her and once in a while a would see her standing outside the nursery window looking at her, but would never hold her. It was heartbreaking. I asked the nurse what would happen to the baby and she said she would go into the system. Because she was a newborn and healthy, it would not be hard to find her a home. I wanted to take her with me right then!
I also dont know much about invitro and things like that. Maybe that could be an option for you as well since they do everything outside your body and then put it back.. ..(for lack of better explanation!!!!hahah) In the end, if you want another baby and you are determined, there are plenty of options for you. Good Luck!
i think if you're up to the task, being an adoptive or foster parent through the county would be a great option for you. if you are licensed to foster AND adopt, you could limit your certification to just newborns if that is what you want. then when the baby is removed from his home or the hospital, s/he will be placed in your home immediately. depending on the reason for the removal, the child will either go back to his original home after the parents meet their requirements (which could be heartbreaking for you, i know), or he will become available for you to adopt. this is something my family is doing and feel good about, and would be happy to offer more information to you if you think it may work for your family. good luck on your journey!
