Waking up in the Night - Sisters.

Updated on December 27, 2006
K.W. asks from Skowhegan, ME
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My youngest daughter has slept through the night since she was 2 weeks old. Just recently (about a month ago), she has started waking up in the night, either on her own or because of certain movement of my older daughter (waking up to go to the bathroom; dreams; etc.). I am purely exhausted and see it in my daily everything. I didn't know if anyone had any ideas to help her sleep through noise! In the last month the girls get up 2-3 (sometimes more) times a night. I can't keep doing this, and neither can my husband (he works a 60 hour job and needs his rest too). Thanks in advance for any advice or encouragement.

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So What Happened?

I wanted to update you all on our situation. After trying music, nursing, and eventually letting her cry herself to sleep (which would go on for about 20 minutes, sometimes more) we've finally found a solution that has truly worked. We've taught both our girls to stay laying down and the longest they stay awake 15 minutes. My youngest would cry and I just shh shh shh'd her and she eventually stopped. I made sure all their needs were met and would gently lay them back down - or tell them to - if they got up (unless of course my oldest said she needed to potty). I found this suggested at a great site that says this can be done with babies once they are picking their head up and fighting bedtime (usually around 4-5 months). I just wanted to thank you all for your advice and tips. I hope what has worked for us will inspire others to take advantage of how smart our babies are and how they truly are trainable! God bless, and thanks again!

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D.B.

answers from Boston on

I don't exactly know how to help her sleep through the night, but my son did the same thing. He then started sleeping the whole night again and now every once and a while he gets up but falls back to sleep in bed with me. I generally try to make sure that he has a bottle before bed to make sure that his tummy is full, and change his diaper so that I know that isn't going to wake him. Babies are so confusing sometimes, but if you stick it out I'm sure things will get better soon.

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A.L.

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At five months of age, so much is going on developmentally. Has your daughter cut teeth? Maybe that is starting. Or maybe she is about to learn something new. Is she rolling over? Maybe shes working on that or attempting to sit up. Not sleeping is so hard! I know because my son now 13 months is just now at a point where he will only wake up once over 12 hours. When people fall asleep it is natural to wake up every two or three hours. Have you ever had a night where you wake up a few times and just go back to sleep? A child wakes up all night as well but doesnt have the ability to just roll back over and go to sleep. However you deal with the situation totally depends on your parenting method...but with my son we have tried very hard to have a consistant bed time routine. He has a teddy bear that we put to bed with him that he has grown attached to, and I always go in his room give him a hug and put him back down when he wakes up in the middle of the night. However...we coeslept untill he was 8 months. At five months I think we were still nurseing every three hours for 20 mins.
Try and take naps, and ask for help from friends. I know how hard on a family not sleeping can be. You are so not alone and I hope your little one starts sleeping soon.

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J.H.

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i have a 21/2 year old non sleeper and have tried much.. not everything works but often I find that putting a humidifier in her room works pretty well through out the winter. I suspect it is the noise of the humidifier but it might just be the humdity that works.

Hope that helps

Jenna

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C.M.

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Have you tried playing a lullaby CD that plays continuously through the night? Or maybe one of those "white noise" or soothing sound machines. When my oldest was a baby, we had a tape of the vacuum cleaner that we played for background noise, but that was 21 years ago and they have so much out there now. Or maybe one of those teddy bears that makes the sound of the mama's heartbeat like they hear in the womb. Best wishes!

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J.F.

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EVEYONE always told me NEVER be quite bc then they get use to that all the time so that when the Littlest noise or movement happens that they would wake up... the 2.5 potty tranin??? if so no water or drink about an hour b4 bed and that might help with the gettin up and the dreams cant help there might is 3.5 and still will wake up every now and then with a BAD dream she calls them... But she has to get use to the noise there isnt anythin that u really can do try with the drink maybe that will help and try to make More noise when she is nappin or when ur all together .. hope that helped a little

Good Luck

J.

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