J.D.
Ok... first of all, you made me laugh with your euphemisms. Thanks for that...
I can't give you experience on the VBAC, but I think if you get another C, you need to try a different hospital. I held my baby right after they cleaned her up and weighed her. Believe me... I have pictures to prove it. And, yes, if you are going to control the pet population, I would highly suggest you stick with the C. Otherwise, they are going to have to cart you off away from your baby right after it is born. Can't really do major surgery in a birthing room...
I personally don't get all the hype about the "birthing experience", but that's just me. I don't need to brag about the way my baby came into this world and I don't need the pain to prove she got here. She's here, she's healthy, and my recovery was awesome! Up and out in 2 days and home with my girl.
I would think cost would go up with a VBAC just considering the unknown complications and the unscheduled delivery. Again... I'm just reaching here, so don't quote me on that one.
Have a great Monday and take my opinions with a grain of salt.. Best of luck to you and your new little one! :)