B.C.
I HATE separate vacations. My wife, her two sisters and her mom have been on vacations by themselves. I wanted to go along, but was refused. They said it was a girls night out vacation. I said they should all invite their husbands and we'd all go. But they still said no. (They are all divorced or have chased their "partners" away.)
They went on a cruise that stopped at several islands. I love cruising. They loved the cruise. They didn't feel bad at all leaving me at home. I had no problem keeping the home up and taking care of everyone here. That wasn't a problem at all. I've never found being a SAHD difficult at all. The problem was my wife was making fun memories without me.
When she got home, I was angry. She said I could go with my best friend if I wanted to. I said, "Ok, do you think SHE really wants to go with me now and do we have the money to do that? I'd have to pay for HER too." She got real mad in an instant. She yelled, "Who is this girl that you want to take with you and how long have you know her?" I replied, "This beautiful, sexy, charming, highly desirable girl that I've known ALL my married life. . . long pregnant pause . . . is YOU ! ! ! When can WE go?"
I'm not one for girls night out vacations either. And if I went with my brother and did things he wanted to do, we go to someplace like Hedonism II or something similar and see how many girls we could get in our beds. Not me. Not interested. I see no reason to go out for hamburger when I have filet mignon at home (so to speak).
I hope you have a wonderful time. Good luck to you and yours.
