R.S.
Try contacting aPlaceForMom.com. When we wre looking for a place for my husband's grandmother they had us fill out a questionnaire of what we were looking for and offered a list of places to check out, as well as what kinds of questions to ask. Someone was assigned to check in on us (by email) and sent us articles and such she thought might help. And it was all free! Wish I could suggest a great place, but we were looking into only Alzheimer's facilities.