Hi A.,
Congratulations on the new baby! Two dermatologists with no answer...how frustrating! A new baby AND working...how stressful!
A few suggestions for you... Keep a diary and chart when it flares or is at its worse. What were you doing, what did you eat, where were you and time of day. This will help to determine if its, stress, allergy etc, Some clues willl form a pattern. ( hopefully)
A new baby can throw your entire system out of order.
Are you having your blood pressure checked regularly? Rule out hypertension.
Have you switched soap, shampoo makeup? Is your makeup OLD? Irritants.
Are you taking in more caffiene ? Dilates blood vessels in face.
Have you recently moved and do you have hard water???? This is something most folks dont think of.
If you havent altered anything and you rule out these things then doing calming things for YOURSELF may help.
Get out if you can, even just to windowshop or take a walk around the block. Candle lit bubblebaths are always beneficial, deep breathing, listening to soft soothing music or just lying on the bed in the quiet for a 15 minute rest or nap can settle you down.
I was EXTREMELY stressed with my first, constantly vigilant and always on call for every whimper. At the time I didnt realize just how tense I was. I was on autopilot like a robot.
Let me know how you fare with this.
In the meantime there is a cosmetic powder by PhysiciansFormula Cosmetics, it's green! and it hides the rosey hues. JC Penny also has a green liquid cosmetic that hides redness one applies under foundation. Since you are already itchy I'd be careful about using anything on your face...you may be aggravating it with creams and makeup...(the powder might be the least irritating for a coverup)
I hope we've hit the root of the problem. Keep me posted.
Blessings to you and yours!
Justine