K.K.
I wasn't super successful at the nursing thing with mine...only about 2 weeks with the first and 7 with the 2nd. However, I had the same prob with my first. He just wouldn't latch on. A friend came over to sort of "guide" me, and she said I was doing everything right...he just wouldn't take it. The one suggestion she had was this...at night, lay on the couch, or bed, undo your shirt w/baby undressed(of course w/diapee), lay him on your chest, and be skin to skin for a little while. Just resting & cuddling. I did this, and he latched right on for the next feeding. I don't know how it worked, but it did for me. Good luck!