J.L.
B.,
I have a 2 1/2 year old with this same issue. When she was about 9 months the dr was telling me the same thing about the tubes. She had a stuffy nose from the time she came home. We switched her to soy milk and she just stopped having ear infections. Now if she ever has regular milk I can totally tell. I know this is going to sound crazy but her attitude changes when she has regular milk. She will though more fits and is more unreasonable. She also used to get really bad diaper rashes from it. I hope this helps. Soy was the way to go for us.
J.