A.S.
Hi V.,
My son was 2 yrs old when he had his tubes put in. The ENT Doc said that it's a routine surgery and my son would e able to fly the next day after the surgery. We did not fly the day after but a month or so afterwards and it was great. Usually my son is screaming because of the pressure in his ears but he didn't even notice the change in altitude. He just wondered if there was a McDonalds on the plane where he could get some chicken nuggets! :)
As for recovery, my son was back to his normal shenanigans a few hours after the surgery.
Good luck to you and your daughter. I'm sure everything will work out just fine. Btw, our surgery was performed at Landstuhl RMC. Everyone there was very nice to us. It was a great experience overall.
A.