L.R.
Hi V.,
Try not to care what they think. I agree, your hubby loves you and that is all you should be worried about. Have you asked your hubby if they have any special interests that you could talk to them about? I find asking questions about someone's life experiences tend to open them up a little. Who DOESN'T like to talk about themselves? I work in a dental practice where the majority of our patients are seniors and have found that once you get them talking about themselves you can't shut them up!lol My mother also gave me some good advice when I started in the dental field 18 yrs ago. She said "treat the people who are the most difficult with the most kindness and you will see a difference." She was right, some of the most difficult/unfriendly people I've used this advice on have become the nicest to me. You could always talk about your daughter and what she has been doing.
Good luck!
L.