Traveling with a Nearly 2 Year Old Half Way Around the World, Literally!

Updated on February 23, 2010
J.J. asks from San Jose, CA
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Hello Mamas,

I'm going to be traveling with my now 19 month old daughter to Tanzania, Africa this Summer. My husband may accompany us on the return flight. She's never flown before and it is 24 hours in the air and more than 30 hours of total travel time (one direction). I am considering stopping for a day or two at our lay over in Europe (which would break the flight in half). It is looking like we can't afford a seat for her (tickets are around 2000 USD). I am a very calm traveler and generally a patient mother but I am wondering how crazy I am for doing this, especially without her own seat! Any advice specific to this type of lengthy travel? Recommendations on dealing with the time change (it's an 11 hour difference). Has anyone else had experience traveling with infants/toddlers in the developing world? Many people will be enthusiastic to help in Africa but I am skeptical I will be able to leave her with anyone. I am a full time working mom and a little nervous about working with her 24/7 in a place where there are so many infectious diseases. I lived in Tanzania for a couple years so I am familiar with the community and environment. All advice is appreciated. Thanks in advance!

~J.

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L.N.

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oh well stock up on tylenol and motrin :). really. well our overseas trips, well the lengthiest, has been 23 hrs. the good thing is most likely there will be an empty seat so the airpline folks will accommodate you and the baby best they can (because they don't wanna listen to a screaming child hehehe). then, see if your child is old enough for earplug airplines (cvs and target sells them, but ask pharmacist if it's ok for your son. we used them at age 3, and they're great for take off and landing). if i were you, i wouldn't make a layover stop in europe. you and your son won't be comfy in a hotel and will just drag out the trip. ask for water/juice any time you need it. stock up on brand new toys that your son won't see until the plane takes off. remember, they do a lot of sleeping in the airplane. my kids did well with long flights. i used tag reader and leapsters but mine were about 2 i think when they saw the leapsters for the first time. that kept them occupied for quite a long time. make sure, you ask about an empty seat as you're going in. they'll be trying to help out before the plane takes over.
i guess my only two advice are: new toys, and no layover.
as for when you get to tanzania. even before you go, ask around for doctor recommendations so if you need it you'll have the number handy. my kids always have diahrrea (sp?) when we first go. always. it's like not even up for hope or discussion. but it isn't bad and lasts a few days. even if you only give bottled water or boiled water, it just happens. i know the routine, bananas, plain rice, toast, and applesauce. 2-3 days they're back on track. i get the doctor numbers before i go there so i am making phone calls right away.
in case you need antibiotics...this is what really happened to us so might as well warn you. one of my babes got strep throat the first week of our first visit. i knew it was strep (THANKS NEIGHBORS), and took her to a pediatrician who just said oh if you know it's strep why did you come to me? go to pharmacy and ask for antibiotic (yeah, for sure, no rx no nothing hahaha). so i go to pharmacy and they give me antibiotic. names are different of course, so i give my daughter the two doses for the first day and by the next day she was just wayyyyy toooo healthy. hm. called my pediatrician in the US told them the name of antibiotic (he was not familiar with it), told him the component and the dose and he's like holy molly that is one strong antibiotic. wow. so then he tells me over the phone what to ask for at the pharmacy and the dosage. so on my next trip, before we leave, i went to my kids' pediatrician and asked for an rx for antibiotic (the mildest lowest dosage) in case we needed it. i got it, filled it up (it has to be an antibiotic that doesn't require refrigeration), and never had to use it. my kids did well on that trip, but i had my mind at peace knowing i had an antibiotic if i needed for ear infection or what not. so just do your best. also make sure you look into which vaccinations he may require before you leave. sometimes some vaccines need to be given weeks ahead for them to go into effect prior to traveling.
oh now don't say i scared you. i didn't. just preparing you for anything and everything and yes my middle name is neurotic :)
L.

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R.S.

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Hi Jasmine,

Wow, you're brave!! I can't comment on a lot since our baby is only 7 months; however, we traveled overseas with an 8-hour time difference...the one thing I can tell you is patience, patience, patience. For several days, our baby went to sleep at midnight and woke up at 10 or 11 am...by the end of our 2 weeks, she was still not on the same schedule she was here in the US...but she was going to bed around 9 pm instead of midnight! I drove myself crazy trying to keep her on some sort of nap/bedtime schedule and at some point realized that it didn't matter...and that once we returned to the US she'd adjust (it took us all about a week). A lot of daylight helps...both when you arrive and when you return...

Sorry I can't be of more help but I'm sure you'll get some great responses!

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K.H.

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I have not do ne a flight that long with my kids (longest flight we have done is 8hrs with a 5hr time difference). As your child is 19 months now are you sure you will be able to have her on your lap?? If they turn 2 during the time you are away they need their own seat. Also you are going to be so uncomfortable with her on your lap the whole time and not being able to swap shifts with your husband. She will get restless and will no doubt have a tantrum out of sheer frustration and boredom as not being able to run around and burn off all the energy that a 2 yr old has , so you also need to consider the fact that if she is on your lap then you will have a passenger sat next you (not fun when your child is screaming). I flew to Mexico (only 3 hrs) and my then 17 month old threw and absolute wobbler and the person next to me was not impressed!

I suggest taking some favourite toys , snacks , but they will only work for so long.

I wish you luck , I would not like to be facing a flight that long with kids!!

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E.A.

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I did 12 hours with my daughter when she was about that age. Some bulkhead seats have a "bassinet" that attaches to the wall. 19 months is a little big for it, but if you can wrangle one do it. ANYONE seated nest to you for that will move if humanly possible. then you'll have your two seats for free. The gentleman next to me who moved was very polite. "Nothing personal, but Miss? Are there ANY other free seats on this plane?"

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D.L.

answers from Roanoke on

Dear Jasmine,

I was traveling with my baby for 18h in the air (total travel time 25h) when she was almost 2 years old.
I remember I was entertaining her most of the time , I had a special bag of really cheap and light toys she had never seen before. Also may be it is a good idea to take food for her because food they give in the plane is usually horrible.
I think that the hardest part is that she does not have a seat..
Good luck!

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P.L.

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It isn't crazy. I have travelled many times with my oldest and she is a champion In her almost 3 years she has done 2 flights to Germany (as an infant) and 3 trips to Australia (as a 1 + year old). Just be prepared for the worst have enough food and diapers activities. On international flights they will give you the bassinet seat.

Good luck.

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