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I went to Zambia for 3 months, and as an adult I had to get 9 shots... I am not sure about children. Her peditrician should know which ones she can have. I would definatly recommend getting each and every shot recommended, because they are recommened for a reason.
Have you been showing your daughter pics of your husband? If not start now, so that she will atleast somewhat recognize his face. Have they been talking on the phone? If so, then she should be able to recognize his voice. I wouldn't worry, Daddys that love and care have a way with daughters...