Too Soon? Silly Question, but I Need an Opinion...

Updated on May 12, 2011
R.D. asks from Richmond, VA
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I bought a little wedding gift for myself... a small charm with a 'J' for my married name to be (our wedding is in June) and a June birthstone charm... They just came in and I'm dying to wear them! Is it too soon or should I suck it up and wait until after we're married?

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K.C.

answers from Orlando on

You're adorable.

It's cute that you are excited and there is nothing wrong with wearing them if you want to, but personally I would wait. Is it something you can wear to the wedding? I think that would make it even more special.

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J.J.

answers from Los Angeles on

suck it up & wait!!! Something more to look forward to!

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C.C.

answers from Visalia on

my husband to-be bought me a necklace with the initial of his last name 33 yrs ago. to tell you the truth i dont remember what i did, i just thought wow, he's really looking forward to this, lol.

wear it now.

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A.B.

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I say wait. It would be kind of like eating a slice of birthday cake the day before your birthday. It won't be long now, and it will be something little and fun to anticipate (maybe take your mind off the stress of the planning a little :D).

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K.P.

answers from New York on

Wait... same with your wedding band. You're excited about the wedding, but wait the month and wear it throughout your honeymoon!

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M.J.

answers from Dover on

I know this will probably sound weird, but to me it sounds similar to when our wedding rings came in & I tried mine on every day leading up to our wedding day. It's something that you're not supposed to wear until after you're married, you know that, but it's just so hard! Wear it when you're home!!

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C.N.

answers from Baton Rouge on

We wore our wedding rings before the wedding - go for it.

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J.L.

answers from Chicago on

Wait...Youi don't have much longer :) I agree something to look forward to

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

wait! wait! wait!!!! they sound lovely - but that can be your "something new" on your wedding day!!!

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

If he bought it I would say you could wear it now, but since you did I would wait until after the wedding. JMO

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B.S.

answers from Lansing on

Cute.

I say go ahead and wear it. I would.

I was engaged for 3 years before my wedding took place. I preferred the look of my wedding ring together with the engagement ring vs the engagement ring on its own. (It came as a set) So, I had the ring put together shortly after I was given it.

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C.J.

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I wore my wedding set before we were married. I knocked a prong WAY over and since I worked in a jewlery store we thought that would be best to do that to protect the other prongs (it did get fixed) because we had it soldered together right before the wedding and added an extra prong off the wedding band. I still get harrassed for beating up my ring so fast.

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N.G.

answers from Dallas on

Wear it!! It makes you happy and every time you see it you'll feel a bit excited that your wedding is just around the corner!

Congrats!!

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