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I actually am having the same problems with my 2 boys who are 4 1/2 and 6. I love some of the advice that you've gotten and I think I'll stop having the fun snacks that they like and only keep healthy one's on hand. I'll include one thing on there plate that they like and then include new things as well. If you are having any luck or think of something new that's working please help me out as I will do the same! Good luck to both of us. Its going to be a battle but we've got to stay strong moms.