Toddler Won’t Sleep in Without Paci?

Updated on January 15, 2018
G.G. asks from Clover, SC
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I took my daughters paci away at Christmas. We “gave it to santa” ...she just turned 2 and has always slept with it. Well now she naps just fine without and goes to bed fine without but my issue is, ever since we took it away she won’t sleep past 3:30-4am. I don’t go in and get her up, I leave her until I’m ready for her to “wake” but she will not go back to sleep. She use to sleep until 5:30-6am. She has always slept at least 10 hours at night, now I’m lucky to 8. What has worked for anyone else who went through this?

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J.☯.

answers from Springfield on

If she is going to sleep (at naptime and at bedtime) just fine, them I'm thinking the problem is not the paci. My guess is that her sleep needs are changing.

If she is waking up cranky or is showing signs of being overtired, that's one thing. But if she's in a pretty good mood most of the day, she's probably getting enough sleep. It's not unusual for her to need a little less sleep at night. If she is getting eight hours of sleep at night and she's getting a nap during the day, it's likely that that's all the sleep that she needs.

I think I would consider having for bedtime a little bit late. No way would I want to be waking at 3:30 in the morning! My kids both slept about 7 to 8 hours a night with a 3 hour nap at that age. Wow was I happy when they gave up their nap! They sleep for 11 to 12 hours at night, then!

Sleep needs change, and I really think that's what's going on here.

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M.G.

answers from Portland on

Can't say mine ever slept for shorter periods without it. If she relied on it to get back to sleep if she woke early, that's another habit you'll have to break. Maybe going to sleep is one thing (if really sleepy she'll just doze off), but if only somewhat sleepy after 8 hours, it's a different matter.

Sometimes kids do just start getting up earlier - but that seems to coincidental. Mine would do it with time changes.

One thing one of mine had around that age, was a sippy cup. He would want a sip of water when he woke up. I didn't mind that habit because I like to have a drink when I wake up too and figured maybe his throat was dry. He had liked the sucking and missed it so a sip of a water (the sippy cup didn't leak) was all he needed. I kept it either by his bed or in his bed (can't remember now if he was in a toddler bed). Anyhow, if he woke, he had it with him and I wasn't stirred.

Good luck :)

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D..

answers from Miami on

Keep doing what you're doing. If you end up going in to her, she will not learn to self-soothe and you will have to get up every night with her. She'll go from depending on the paci to depending on you, and then you won't get any sleep either.

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

It's only been a few weeks.
She'll learn to self soothe without the paci sooner or later.

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