S.R.
Michelle, sorry for the delay! I took my daughter (almost 3) to a salon for kids. They have seats that look like cars, which children love and they play a movie while they are cutting their hair.
I have the same problem when I try to comb my daughter's hair so I give her a comb and that way she let me comb her hair because she can also comb her hair or mine. I hope this helps.
S.