NC is not NJ.
What are you used to?
Are you used to getting things done now, your way and without much backtalk?
Or are you willing to wait a bit, maybe a week for a repair, doing it this way first then your way and making friends with every one you meet before you get what you want.
You will have to start using the air conditioner in March. It's very sticky, humid. You wont' get used to it the first summer.
Bugs, NC has those large cockroaches they call Palmetto Bugs. You'll need an exterminator.
Taxes are high, gas is high, milk is high. THe actual cost of living in NC was higher than that of Northern VA.
But if you can slow your expectations down and start talking to complete strangers about their kids and mother, and deal with the heat you will do OK.
I grew up in Chicago. I moved to NC first in '98 then left in '01. I hated it. It was so different. I cried for many nights.
THe 2nd time we were here was '06 to last July. Now I miss it. The southern hospitality is a treat if you let them show you the ways of the South.
No one up North does sweet tea like NC.
And no one will give their shirts off their backs faster than those in NC.
And schools, well there are good schools in NC and bad teachers, there are bad schools and good teachers. But the same can be sad for VA, NY, and TX. My daughter did fine, actually very well.
The colleges are rated tops in the nation, UNC, NCState, and Duke is in Durham.
Really look deep inside and think about if you can do this. You are a Yankee, I am too, I still say pop, I hate sticky humid days. But I loved NC and would have stayed.
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NC is not NJ.
What are you used to?
Are you used to getting things done now, your way and without much backtalk?
Or are you willing to wait a bit, maybe a week for a repair, doing it this way first then your way and making friends with every one you meet before you get what you want.
You will have to start using the air conditioner in March. It's very sticky, humid. You wont' get used to it the first summer.
Bugs, NC has those large cockroaches they call Palmetto Bugs. You'll need an exterminator.
Taxes are high, gas is high, milk is high. THe actual cost of living in NC was higher than that of Northern VA.
But if you can slow your expectations down and start talking to complete strangers about their kids and mother, and deal with the heat you will do OK.
I grew up in Chicago. I moved to NC first in '98 then left in '01. I hated it. It was so different. I cried for many nights.
THe 2nd time we were here was '06 to last July. Now I miss it. The southern hospitality is a treat if you let them show you the ways of the South.
No one up North does sweet tea like NC.
And no one will give their shirts off their backs faster than those in NC.
And schools, well there are good schools in NC and bad teachers, there are bad schools and good teachers. But the same can be sad for VA, NY, and TX. My daughter did fine, actually very well.
The colleges are rated tops in the nation, UNC, NCState, and Duke is in Durham.
Really look deep inside and think about if you can do this. You are a Yankee, I am too, I still say pop, I hate sticky humid days. But I loved NC and would have stayed.