K.R.
Why on earth would you blame an attorney for telling you to move? You are the one who chooses where you live. Your attorney probably told you his or her OPINION - that it would be OK and even ideal from a LEGAL perspective for you to move, given all the custody issues, etc. That doesn't mean he made you move. You chose that.
So to answer your question, you should listen to you. You should take the advice of people you trust, weigh out all the best options, and decide accordingly.
Don't blame others for choices you make.
If you don't trust your attorney, find a different one. And stop asking the attorney for life changing, geographical advice. He is there to be your lawyer, and he will advise you whether what YOU WANT TO DO is legal or a good idea from a legal perspective.
ETA: I think people, Jo included, are missing my point. Here is what I am saying: Say Susie wants to move, but she is in the middle of a custody battle. She goes her attorney and says " I want to move in with my mom 2 hours away because she has money, stability, can help us, etc" Attorney is going to tell you whether, from a LEGAL perspective, this is a good idea or not. He is not there to be your therapist or your best friend. He is there to tell you what is best for your case. People look too much to attorneys to help them make all life decisions when facing a court battle. Yes, you should ALWAYS run anything by your attorney before doing it to see HOW IF AT ALL it will affect your case, but don't rely on your attorney for your HAPPINESS after making that decision.
Best wishes.