hi, my son was about 15 months old and my daughter is 15 months older. Anyways, we went on a couple of long car trips and for the first, we weened them from bottles, after the trip was finished (wheaton to vail, colorodo) then, we weened them both from pacifiers after our trip to hilton head just about 6 months later. We just though, why not keep them happy for the trip and why hurry but we knew we wanted to end the use of pacis, so, we just told them that after the first trip that the bottle fairy had come over night and after the second road trip that the paci fairy had come over night. There were a couple of crabby evenings, but since we didn't push things with them and let them have them for as long as they needed them, they got over it in a few days. I wouldn't have wanted them to have had to give up bottle or paci any sooner - they grow and change so fast and need things to sooth themselves. It bugs me though when I see a three or four yr old with a paci! There's a right time to push certain things but just let them be babies when they need to be! I feel that my daughter was a little old to give up bottle and paci, but she didn't use a paci until after her little bro was born when she was still a baby 15 months old. So, I let her be a baby as long as she needed. They are both such happy siblings now. They are also so grown up and independent and I'm so glad that I let them use a pacifier and a bottle as long as I did. Also, their teeth look nice - I think they'll probably need less dental help than I needed!