Thumb-sucking Is Already Effecting 24 Month Old Baby Teeth, Any Suggestions?

Updated on June 18, 2008
K.D. asks from Olathe, KS
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My son turned two - two weeks ago. He started sucking his thumb at six weeks, has never taken a pacifier for more than 10 minutes. Whenever he is tired, "pop" goes the thumb -into the mouth! He sucks on his thumb most of the night and soothes himself back to sleep by this as well. I have been trying to figure out what to do, read some different opinions and thought I would get your thoughts too! During the day we will ask him to please take his thumb out of his mouth and he is very mindful, usually gets distracted with something else and forgets about it. It is the nighttime habit that is hardest to break. We give him the pacifier which is always only temporarily entertaining. You can even give him one to go to bed with, but he ends up with the thumb again after a few minutes. I read an article off a reputable source that I really shouldn't worry about this until he's three. The article said, depending on how hard he sucks it shouldn't really effect his teeth yet. Now, I noticed today that I'm not just imagining it - his teeth ARE already getting crooked on the bottom and I see a slight shift in two of his top teeth as well on the left side. Having been a "finger sucker" myself and gone through having a mouth full of funky teeth, followed by awful braces and sensitive gums as a result - I want him to avoid this if possible. What are your thoughts? I seriously don't know what to do. The bitter stuff you can put on your thumb, well, I'm afraid he would rub his eye and burn the eye instead. I don't want to deprive him of a self soothing technique before he may be capable of effectively replacing it with something, but I also want to break this habit. I have no clue what is best or what to do...Thanks for your time, interest, and any input you may have.

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J.D.

answers from St. Joseph on

I have a seven year old daughter who sucked her thumb until she was 5 1/2. I tried several things to get her to stop but to no avail. Her dentist kept telling me to leave her alone that she would stop on her own and as long as she did not have permanent teeth yet that the dental thing was not an issue. It worked. We left her alone and one month into kindergarten we noticed we were seeing less of the thumb sucking and asked her about it. She informed us she quit and that was the end. I wouldn't worry yet and if you can't help it, find a pediatric dentist and ask their opinion. By the way, she saw her dentist from 9 months on so he was aware of the situation the whole time. And today she has several permanent teeth, none of which are "damaged" from the thumb sucking. Good Luck!

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A.K.

answers from St. Louis on

I am not a dental health provider. If you haven't already consulted a trusted dentist, you may want to consider doing so. I started taking my kids to the dentist at 2yo. They counted their teeth, took a quick look around, played with the water jet, got a new toothbrush, etc. It was a great introduction to the dentist and they were never afraid of going. It would be a great time to talk about this issue.

My daughter was a big thumbsucker, starting en utero. I didn't worry about it too much until she got her permanent teeth. My strategy worked, but she was much older, I'm not sure it would work with a 2 yo.

It's always been my understanding that there is no real advantage of a pacifier over a thumb as far as teeth goes. Neither of my kids ever took a pacifier.

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C.B.

answers from Kansas City on

your son sounds like mine. those thumb suckers seem to be the sensitive, "obedient", sweet ones! i would definitely ask your dentist first of all. like some other ladies said, i have also heard that thumbsucking won't affect the teeth until the "grownup" teeth start coming in. i would definitely check it out - since he's mainly doing it at night he's not hurting anything. i wouldn't worry (unless the dentist says to) until he's in gradeschool and doing it during class! (-from a former thumbsucker)

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J.D.

answers from St. Louis on

have you tried using a bottle when you put him to bed? or have you weaned him from that? I was a thumb sucker and would rub fuzz from a stuffed animal under my nose until 1st grade. It did not effect my teeth. Ask your dentist for some ideas. Cinnamon is great to use, because it is bitter. Try it during the day. If you can get it stop during the day, then maybe he will stop at night eventually. Good luck.

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D.H.

answers from Kansas City on

My oldest daughter was a utero thumb sucker as well as outside from birth. When she was in Kindergarten we put Hoof Stop the Bite on her nails, it is a polish and doesn't rub off. We had to do it to both thumbs cuz when she couldn't suck her left thumb, she'd suck the right one. She also, would unconciously suck when she was tired or in her sleep. It actually took several months but we were persistant, because we didn't want her to have the whole mouth problem. She did go from thumb sucking to biting her fingernails. When she was 9 we used the Hoof Stop the Bite again. Well, she is no longer a nail biter or a thumb sucker. Persistance is the key.
She doesn't have any teeth challenges, except for the one she knocked out when she hit a tree sledding, but that is a whole story in its self. Most teeth problems are hereditary. If you or your husband had braces then your kids could also. I had braces and my husband didn't (and he was a thumb sucker). My oldest may not need them and my youngest most likely will, she was a paci baby until she was 2 1/2. Try the Hoof Stop the Bite (walmart), but don't worry to much about it. My oldest didn't completely stop until she was almost 6 or 7. And that was just at night unconciously doing it. She is 11 now and doesn't suck her thumb or bite her nails anymore. Good luck and God Bless.

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J.H.

answers from St. Louis on

My neice had this problem and they used tape to tape her thunmb every night. For me, my parents put socks on my hands and used duct tape to keep me from taking them off at night. Both ways were highly effective. I highly disagree that you should let them go until age three. If he needs security- but him a special blanket or something. I think you should stop the habit as soon as you can because the longer the habit the harder it is to break. Good Luck!

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L.H.

answers from St. Louis on

One thing to try is vanilla extract. It was very helpful with getting my friend's sister to quit smoking. To keep him from rubbing it in his eye maybe try putting it on his thumb right before he goes to bed so when he automatically sticks his thumb in his mouth he'll pull it right back out again. but because he's so much younget than my friend's sister maybe have a pacifier on statndby with something sweet on it like fruit juice or something pleasant so he starts to free associate the paci with something happy and the thumb with bitter. The full association should take about a week or so but keep an eye out he could have a lapse and go right back to the thumb. It just takes time then you should be able to just give him the paci at bed time and he should be content with that and maybe someday with nothing at all. If you want to look up the idea in most any psych book its called Conditioned Response. If he winds up having a lapse its called Spontaneous Recovery. (I was a minor in Psychology while I was in colege). I hope this helps.

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L.R.

answers from Kansas City on

our son is thumbsucker too and he is 4. All the articles I've read say try this and try that, but overall do in a positive manner and if none of it works then let him stop on his own. His teeth were a concern, but after seeing the dentist he has assured me there is nothing to worry about. I would talk to your dentist and get his professional opinion on the teeth if that is your concern. If you're worried about him rubbing his eyes with something you put on his thumb, I remember seeing a contraption that looked like a thumb guard so the child couldn't suck his/her thumb. I don't know what is was called or the makers of it, but you could probably search online.

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B.S.

answers from Joplin on

Don't worry about it at all. Crooked teeth are due to heredity. Most dentists now will tell you it is not an issue for the teeth. Especially for a child like yours who isn't a 24 hour thumb sucker.

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